Couple celebrate 60 years of marriage in Irchester

A couple celebrated 60 years of happy marriage with a romantic meal at an Irchester care home.

By The Newsroom
Friday, 22nd December 2017, 9:20 am
Updated Friday, 22nd December 2017, 9:26 am
Brenda and Tony enjoy their special meal. NNL-171222-101331005
Brenda and Tony enjoy their special meal. NNL-171222-101331005

Love was on the menu at The Cottage nursing home in High Street when resident Tony Ellis, 80, enjoyed a special lunch with his wife, Brenda, 79.

Tony moved into The Cottage five years ago after he was diagnosed with vascular dementia, the second most common form of dementia affecting 150,000 people in the UK.

The pair met as teenagers in 1955 on a coach trip to see a Sunday night show at De Montford Hall in Leicester.

Brenda and Tony with their twin sons. NNL-171222-101319005

Tony, an apprentice electrician and cornet player in the Rushden Temperance Band, married Brenda in 1957 but just two months into their married life he began his National Service.

Brenda said: “After his basic training he was sent out to Aden.

“I spent most of the first two years we were married on my own.”

On his return the couple bought their first house in Rushden with savings from Brenda’s wages from the Lancashire Dynamo and Crypto factory, and soon after had twin boys who still live close by.

Brenda and Tony. NNL-171222-101344005

Tony and Brenda were treated to prawn cocktail for their lunch followed by pork casserole and cheesecake, with flowers on their table in the home’s newly refurbished tea room.

Home manager Felicity Bucknall-Hart and the activities team at the home stepped in to create the romantic meal when Tony was made ‘resident of the day’, an initiative which gives residents the chance to have a day that’s exactly as they want it to be.

Felicity said: “Our ‘resident of the day’ scheme gives everyone here the opportunity, once a month, to have a day tailored to them.

“It’s a key part of the high-quality, personalised care we offer at The Cottage.

Brenda and Tony with their twin sons. NNL-171222-101319005

“Although Tony’s communication is limited now, he clearly enjoyed having this special time with Brenda.”

Staff had brought in photos of the couple’s life together and a model of Tony’s boots and beret from his time with the Northants Regiment.

Brenda added: “I come to see him four days a week but it was lovely to have this special time together, the staff made such a fuss of us.

“Tony doesn’t say much these days but he looked at me and he smiled which was wonderful.

Brenda and Tony. NNL-171222-101344005

“We’re very grateful to Felicity and the team for organising this for us.”

The home offers nursing care for us to 53 residents and specialises in caring for those with greater needs.